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A 10-Year Conversation
PUCHKU · LADO · JAAN
4 February 2016 — 28 May 2026
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34,063 messages across 11 years — one tall tower, one painful dip, and a slow climb back
The story starts on a morning in February. Nisha is the first to write — a simple "Gudmrng😊". They are already engaged, and the excitement of a life together fills every message.
They're married now. The chat shifts from courtship to shared life — but the warmth is still there, tucked into everyday exchanges.
The second year of marriage. Life is in the details — grocery lists, dinner plans, missed calls, and inside jokes hardening into tradition.
Three years of marriage. The messages have settled into a comfortable rhythm — logistics, check-ins, the quiet architecture of a shared life.
The silent year. Only 674 messages — a tenth of 2016's volume. The pandemic locked the world down, but something else was happening too. The quiet before a new beginning.
Some chapters in a relationship aren't written in WhatsApp. Some chapters are lived in the same room, in silence, in waiting, in hope.
The messages pick up. Something is different — there's a new gravity. They're about to become parents.
Myraa is one. The chat is now a blend of parenting logistics, Amazon links for baby products, and stolen moments of connection between nappy changes.
Eight years together. The chat is leaner now — more practical, less playful — but the milestones still get marked.
The messages are fewer, but the life behind them is full. Myraa is growing, work is demanding, and somewhere in the quiet, they're still holding on.
The story isn't over. This time capsule will keep growing.
A fraction of the moments they captured
"Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling."
"Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the 'currency of relationships' so consistently invest time into your marriage."
"Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy, and even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh."
"In every argument, remember that there won't be a 'winner' and a 'loser.' You are partners in everything so you'll either win together or lose together."
"Remember that a strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time. It's usually a husband and wife taking turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak."
"Marriage isn't 50-50, divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100."
"Never consider divorce as an option. Remember that a 'perfect marriage' is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other."
— sent by Nisha, with the note: "Read dis. Don't take it as a taunt. I also read it."
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This time capsule was built from 34,063 messages, 4,452 photos, and 471 calls spanning 10 years and 3 months of your lives.
Every fight, every laugh, every "I love you," every "sorry," every forgotten tiffin and recovered moment — it's all here. A love story told not in highlights, but in real time.
The advice Nisha shared in 2016 said: "A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other."
You haven't given up. And you're still writing.
For Deepak, Nisha & Myraa
February 2016 — forever